{"product_id":"men-i-hate-a-memoir-in-essays-9780814259696","title":"Men I Hate: A Memoir in Essays","description":"\u003cb\u003eA rare spouse's perspective on a partner's transition that asks what happens to us when the people we are closest to change. \u003c\/b\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eCan a lesbian who loves a trans man still call herself a lesbian? Against the backdrop of a traditional Sicilian American upbringing, Lynette D'Amico identified as a lesbian despite the expectation that her future hinged on the man she married. As a teenager, she fled her St. Louis home in the dark of night to escape her fate. No boys allowed, until one day D'Amico's life was completely upended when her lover and spouse of twenty years--P. Carl, the acclaimed author of \u003ci\u003eBecoming a Man: The Story of a Transition\u003c\/i\u003e--told her he was a man. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eSeemingly overnight, D'Amico no longer recognized her spouse in photos of past vacations or of the couple celebrating their legal gay marriage. In \u003ci\u003eMen I Hate, \u003c\/i\u003e she asks: What happens when the people we are closest to change? As D'Amico tries to engage more deeply with the man she is married to, she looks at all the men--historical figures, politicians, men in her family--in search of clear dividing lines between good men and bad, between the men she loves and the men she hates. These lines dissolve as she writes her way toward an understanding of the words \u003ci\u003emarriage, \u003c\/i\u003e\u003ci\u003ehusband, \u003c\/i\u003e and \u003ci\u003ehome\u003c\/i\u003e--and how we reconcile who we are with who we become.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAuthor:\u003c\/b\u003e Lynette D'Amico\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublisher:\u003c\/b\u003e Mad Creek Books\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePublished:\u003c\/b\u003e 02\/17\/2026\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003ePages:\u003c\/b\u003e 168\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eBinding Type:\u003c\/b\u003e Paperback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eWeight:\u003c\/b\u003e 1.00lbs\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eSize:\u003c\/b\u003e 8.50h x 5.50w x 0.70d\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eISBN:\u003c\/b\u003e 9780814259696\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003eAbout the Author\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cbr\u003eLynette D'Amico is an essayist and fiction writer. She is the author of the novella \u003ci\u003eRoad Trip\u003c\/i\u003e and a recipient of a fellowship from the Vermont Studio Center. She holds an MFA from the Program for Writers at Warren Wilson College.\u003cbr\u003e","brand":"booksdeli.com","offers":[{"title":"Lynette D'Amico \/ Paperback \/ English","offer_id":47712065683613,"sku":"9780814259696","price":41.06,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0619\/5648\/9373\/files\/img_b7e68f64-f97b-424e-8835-d9d2a0de3263.jpg?v=1773171308","url":"https:\/\/booksdeli.com\/products\/men-i-hate-a-memoir-in-essays-9780814259696","provider":"booksdeli.com","version":"1.0","type":"link"}