Touch Me, I'm Sick: A Memoir in Essays by Feldman, Margeaux
Touch Me, I'm Sick: A Memoir in Essays by Feldman, Margeaux

Touch Me, I'm Sick: A Memoir in Essays

Reject the stigmas of trauma and chronic illness by fostering queer forms of intimacy--and embracing the many...
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Author: Margeaux Feldman
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Language: English
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Touch Me, I'm Sick: A Memoir in Essays by Feldman, Margeaux

Touch Me, I'm Sick: A Memoir in Essays

$72.34
Touch Me, I'm Sick: A Memoir in Essays by Feldman, Margeaux

Touch Me, I'm Sick: A Memoir in Essays

$72.34
Author: Margeaux Feldman
Format: Hardcover
Language: English
Description
Reject the stigmas of trauma and chronic illness by fostering queer forms of intimacy--and embracing the many ways humans can care for one another.

The writer behind the popular @softcore_trauma Instagram offers a deeply personal memoir for folks seeking healing and better care.

The forms of intimacy and care that we've been sold are woefully inadequate and problematic. In a world that treats those who are sick and traumatized as problems in need of a cure, nonbinary writer, artist, educator, and Instagram creator Margeaux Feldman offers a different story.

Trauma, which all too often manifests as chronic illness, tells us that there is something deeply wrong with the world we live in. A world that promotes individualism, fractures us from community through violence and systemic oppression, and leaves us traumatized. That is what we need to cure.

While unveiling their own lived experiences caregiving for their sick father, losing their mother, surviving sexual abuse, and grappling with their own chronic illness, Feldman provides roadmaps for embracing queer modes of care, or "hysterical intimacies," that reject the notion that those who have been labeled sick are broken. Feldman looks at the lengthy history of branding girls, women, and femmes-and their desires-as sick, from the treatment of hysterics by Jean-Martin Charcot and Sigmund Freud in the 19th and 20th centuries. What emerges is a valiant call for rethinking the ways we seek healing.

This compelling blend of theory, personal narrative, and cultural criticism offers a path forward for reimagining the shapes and forms that intimacy, care, and interdependence can take.

Author: Margeaux Feldman
Publisher: Beacon Press
Published: 09/09/2025
Pages: 256
Binding Type: Hardcover
Weight: 1.25lbs
ISBN: 9780807019757

About the Author
Margeaux Feldman (they/them) is a writer, public educator, and artist. They hold an MFA in Creative Writing from CalArts and a PhD in English Literature and Sexual Diversity Studies from the University of Toronto. Their essays have been published in The Sonora Review, GUTS: A Canadian Feminist Magazine, PRISM, Rabble, and The Ex-Puritan, amongst others. They also run the popular Instagram meme account @softcore_trauma where they write about their experiences living with trauma and chronic illness. They currently live in Los Angeles with their two elderly cats. You can learn more about them on their website www.margeauxfeldman.com.
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