How to Find True Love: Unlock Your Romantic Flow and Create Lasting Relationships

Modern dating is broken. It's time for a true love revolution.

It's rough out there. From dating apps that don't reliably connect us, to the unrealistic ideal of love we've been sold by fairytales and romantic comedies, finding love can feel like an uphill battle. Combined with digital overload, rapidly shifting cultural norms, and an ongoing loneliness epidemic, it's no wonder so many are disillusioned with modern dating and relationships. And yet, romantic love and connection still remain a key factor in what motivates and fulfills us. Here's the good news: your desire for true love isn't a pipe dream - it's a call to date differently than you've been taught. Francesca Hogi, certified matchmaker and dating expert, is here to show you a world of romantic possibility beyond our broken dating culture, and it all starts from within.
In How to Find True Love, Hogi provides a better, more realistic method for actually finding and keeping real love. Dating can't be hacked, but it can be transformed. With her advice, exhausted romantics will find comfort in releasing the impossible ideal of a "one true love," and instead come to realize that true love is first and foremost a type of relationship, not one individual person. Co-creating a true love relationship with a great partner is a choice, one available to everyone who wants healthy love. Hogi will show you a holistic approach to dating through the four dimensions that make true love your reality:

• Mindset: think bigger about love
• Heartset: feel better about love (and yourself)
• Soulset: connect with a higher love
• Skillset: date in alignment with love

Above all, true love is really an inside job. Rooted in optimism and purpose, How to Find True Love is a necessary guide for the weary dater. No matter your romantic history, present circumstances, or dating challenges, you can make true love inevitable.

Author: Francesca Hogi
Publisher: Balance
Published: 04/08/2025
Pages: 240
Binding Type: Hardcover
ISBN: 9781538769577

About the Author
Francesca Hogi is a love coach and educator with a passionately pragmatic and holistic approach to helping people find true love. A former corporate lawyer, she began blogging about dating in 2008 to share her hard-won lessons on the topic. In 2014, she pivoted from law into matchmaking and coaching to follow her passion for (positively) meddling in other people's love lives and never looked back. Since then, she's worked with hundreds of single clients of all backgrounds to love themselves and create loving romantic partnerships. She's the host of the top-rated relationship podcast Dear Franny, and has appeared in media from The Today Show to Marie Claire to the New York Times. In 2020, she founded The True Love Society, a community of single people dedicated to living their best lives while on their dating journeys. In 2023, Francesca gave a TED talk about her vision of a world where everyone has true love.

Prior to her love career, Francesca appeared on two seasons of the iconic reality TV show Survivor. Francesca holds a B.S. from Syracuse University and a J.D. from The University of Michigan Law School. In 2024, along with Felicity Fellows, Francesca co-founded Era of This, a new venture dedicated to human connection through meaningful experiences, education, art and beauty. Learn more and get updates at www.francescahogi.com