Infertile But Fruitful: Finding Fulfillment When You Can't Conceive

Those suffering from infertility too often do so in silence, isolation, and even shame. Some married couples find the suffering so raw and intimate that they are unable even to lean on each other. By sharing her story, Leigh Snead aims to encourage open, informed, and generous dialogue about infertility among infertile men and women, the subfertile, the secondarily infertile, those with normal fertility, and the robustly fecund.

You are not alone. In the darkness and pain there is hope, healing, and life.

"This is the book I wish I'd had as a young Catholic bride in her twenties, facing unexplained infertility, and aside from my husband's unfailing and loving support, feeling so very alone," reflects Snead.

"Using my journey, I discuss the emotional difficulties that can come from infertility, the spiritual challenges it can present, what the Church teaches us, and our choice to adopt children and all the decisions that can entail. Through the many years we tried, failed, and ultimately succeeded in building our family, I share the lessons we've learned, the sorrows we endured, and the many blessings bestowed upon us."

This candid yet caring book is a help for those struggling with infertility -- wives and husbands -- but it's also a tremendous resource for priests, physicians, counselors, and the loved ones of anyone bearing the cross of infertility. In these engaging and accessible pages, Snead reveals:

• How to find comfort through the tangle of emotions experienced with infertility
• The ins and outs of seeking quality health care, fertility testing, and treatment options
• Practical tips on treatments gleaned from scientific research and personal experience
• The Church's teaching about the dignity of the human person, and the two ends of married love
• What to consider regarding Artificial Reproductive Technologies (ART)
• Ways to prepare for welcoming a new child, whether biological or adopted

This powerful book also includes stories of other women who, struggling with infertility, embraced God's plan of love and life, and either adopted, eventually conceived children, or made the world a better place as spiritual mothers. Snead's "Lessons Along the Way" at the end of each chapter offer real-life suggestions to help guide and support you on your journey.

Author: Leigh Snead
Publisher: Sophia Institute Press
Published: 01/20/2026
Pages: 144
Binding Type: Paperback
Weight: 0.44lbs
Size: 8.51h x 5.60w x 0.45d
ISBN: 9798889114840

About the Author
Leigh Fitzpatrick Snead is a Fellow for the Catholic Association and co-host of the nationally syndicated radio show Conversations with Consequences. She is a writer, editor, speaker, and mother of four whose work engages questions of popular culture, motherhood, family, and the Church. Her writing has been featured in various media outlets, including National Catholic Register, the Washington Times, the Washington Examiner, Theology of Home, and . She has been an invited speaker on topics such as adoption, family, infertility, and modern Catholic courtship at the University of Notre Dame's Vita Institute, the Edith Stein Project, the Napa Institute, and the Catholic Women's Forum. When she's not writing or mothering Leigh enjoys cooking for friends, multistep skin-care routines, reading books about the USSR, and watching true crime documentaries. She and her husband of twenty-six glorious years live in Granger, India