I've Tried Being Nice: Essays

New York Times bestselling author Ann Leary offers a "zany, relatable essay collection" (Oprah Daily), told from the perspective of a recovering people pleaser. "Ann Leary is a damn delight...Read this book!" --Glennon DoyleHaving arrived at a certain age (her prime), Ann Leary casts a wry backward glance at a life spent trying--and often failing--to be nice. With "humor and expert storytelling" (Oprah Daily), Leary recounts the bedlam of home bat invasions, an obsession with online personality tests, and the mortification of taking ballroom dance lessons with her actor husband. She describes hilarious red-carpet fiascos and other observations from the sidelines of fame, while also touching upon her more poignant struggles with alcoholism, her love for her family, her dogs, and so much more. Prepare to laugh, cry, cringe, and revel in the comically relatable chaos of Ann Leary's life as revealed in this "thoughtful, humorous, and brutally honest" (The Boston Globe) collection of essays. "As relatable and refreshing as a good talk with your wisest friend." --The Boston Globe, "75 Books We're Most Excited to Read This Summer" "In funny and unpretentious essays...Leary shares stories from a lifetime of wanting to be liked." --The Washington Post, "10 Noteworthy Books for June" "[A] winning essay collection...The humor lands and the lithe prose elevates Leary's musings on life's mundanities. This is a gem." --Publisher's Weekly (starred review)

Author: Ann Leary
Publisher: S&s/ Marysue Rucci Books
Published: 06/17/2025
Pages: 240
Binding Type: Paperback
Weight: 0.45lbs
Size: 8.30h x 5.40w x 0.70d
ISBN: 9781982120368

About the Author
Ann Leary is the New York Times bestselling author of a memoir and four novels including The Good House. Her work has been translated into eighteen languages, and she has written for The New York Times, Ploughshares, NPR, Redbook, and Real Simple, among other publications. Her essay, "Rallying to Keep the Game Alive," was adapted for Prime Video's television series, Modern Love. Her novel The Good House was adapted as a motion picture starring Sigourney Weaver and Kevin Kline. She lives with her husband in New York. Visit her online at AnnLeary.com.