Nice Girls Win: How Kind Women Can Create the Lives They Deserve

STOP APOLOGIZING FOR EXISTING. START WINNING AT LIFE.

Ever been called a Nice Girl, as if your only option is to stay quiet, wait your turn, and accept less than you deserve? Who decided being nice means you don't get to take what's yours?

For too long, women have been forced into a binary trap: Be the Ice Queen who burns bridges to get ahead, or the Nice Girl who gets left behind picking up the pieces.

We've been conditioned to believe our kindness is a liability. That our empathy somehow weakens our ambition. So we shrink ourselves to fit into rooms that were never designed for us... and wait for permission that never comes.

Kelly Ehlers is tearing up that script.

In Nice Girls Win, Ehlers-an award-winning founder, entrepreneur, and leader who scaled multi-million-dollar businesses while navigating pregnancy discrimination and corporate gaslighting-reveals how to turn "nice" into a powerful, strategic advantage in work and life.

This isn't about becoming harder. It's about becoming smarter, more confident, and unapologetically self-led.

Inside this bold, practical blueprint for women's empowerment, leadership, and personal growth, you'll learn how to:

• Activate Your Warmth: Use emotional intelligence as a strategic edge to command respect and influence any room
• Burn the Invisible Contract: Stop overgiving, reclaim your time, and set boundaries that protect your energy
• Execute the Strategic No: Build confidence and self-worth by saying no without guilt
• Manifest Your Own Reality: Stop negotiating for less and start claiming what you actually deserve

Winning isn't about self-abandonment; it's about self-preservation. It's time to stop playing small... and start owning the world.

You don't have to choose between being kind and being powerful.

Buy your copy now and start taking what's yours.

Author: Kelly Ehlers
Publisher: Big Circles Media, LLC
Published: 09/22/2026
Pages: 284
Binding Type: Hardcover
Weight: 1.21lbs
Size: 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.69d
ISBN: 9798996018116

About the Author
Ehlers, Kelly: - "Kelly Ehlers is a marketing strategist, entrepreneur, and one of the country's first social media consultants. Long before digital marketing became mainstream, she was building brands, shaping culture, and helping companies lead conversations online. She is the founder of Evoke Brand Strategies, a four-time Inc. 500 marketing and communications agency that has spent more than 16 years partnering with brands including Kraft Heinz, L'Oreal, Marriott, and GE Appliances. She also founded Tease Media, a B2B media platform reaching a collective audience of more than 600,000 beauty professionals with cultural insight, trend forecasting, and industry news. After 25 years helping the world's most recognized brands tell their stories, Nice Girls Win is the first time Kelly is telling her own. The book draws on a personal transformation she went through - a period in which she rebuilt her relationship with herself, her values, and her sense of what she actually deserves. Not because she was broken. Because she had spent so long building a life that looked right from the outside that she had completely lost track of what felt right on the inside. Nice Girls Win is for every woman who checks all the boxes and still wonders why something feels off. It is part memoir, part framework, part permission slip - and it is the most honest thing Kelly has ever written. She is also launching a companion podcast, Nice Girls Win, alongside the book. She speaks on marketing strategy, women in leadership, and personal reinvention, and has been a contributor to Forbes and Rolling Stone."