Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts

Stop waiting for luck and start building a skill. From the "scientific Carrie Bradshaw" and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp comes a revolutionary, psychology-based roadmap to ending dating frustration and finding a partnership that actually sticks.

If you feel like you're stuck in a loop of "Groundhog Day" dates, stalled situationships, or "spark" that leads nowhere, you don't need more apps--you need a better system.

Relationship expert Amy Chan has helped thousands of singles transform their love lives by identifying one hard truth: Most people aren't failing at love because of their personality; they're failing because they're stuck in outdated patterns.

In Unsingle, Chan introduces the Dating Funnel framework--a step-by-step strategy that pinpoints exactly where you are getting stuck and how to fix it. Blending neuroscience, behavioral psychology, and her signature "Chief Heart Hacker" wit, Chan provides the tools to move from casual chemistry to committed compatibility.

Inside, you'll discover:

• The Dating Funnel: A practical system to filter for quality matches and go from "situationship" to serious partnership.
• Chemistry vs. Compatibility: Why "instant sparks" are often red flags and how to look for the traits that actually predict a healthy, lasting future.
• Pattern Interruption: How to identify the subconscious attachment styles and emotional blocks that keep you dating the same (wrong) person.
• The "Character Game" Why dating is a personality game, but maintaining a relationship is a character game--and how to master both.

Whether you are healing from a past breakup or ready to navigate the modern dating world with fresh eyes, Unsingle is your wake-up call. It's time to stop settling for romantic chaos and start building the love you truly deserve.

"Amy Chan gets it. She cuts through the nonsense and gives you the real talk about love.If you want to stop dating like you're stuck in Groundhog Day, read this book." --John Kim, LMFT, author of The Angry Therapist

Amy Chan is a leading expert in social and relational skills and the author of the bestselling Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart. She founded Renew Breakup Bootcamp, the world's first science-based heartbreak retreat, and has been dubbed "a scientific Carrie Bradshaw" by The Observer. Amy has taught at Google, YouTube, has guest lectured at Columbia University, and is faculty at Esalen and The Omega Institute. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The New Yorker, The Guardian, USA Today, andon Good Morning America, The Today Show, and more. Unsingle is Amy's latest book, publishing in April 2026.